Another 'trick' you want to learn is to not confide too much in his sister. Vent to her and such. Blood is thicker than water. It is a not a nice lesson to learn.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK