Move over... I 'm moving back......

[sandycay]

Ok...so STBXH was supposed to have kids Sunday and monday night. I have let him use the house to keep the kids at until he has a place to stay. The plan is I leave for those days. Well I spoke with him at 5pm yesterday to plan for this morning practice for our son... as I know EH has to work.

I come home at 7:30am to find my EX left here last night because he would have had to get up a little early to go to work from here.... Same person who got up to fish at 4am.... we are talking about 20 mins early..... YEP.. he left the kids here all alone last night..... Didn't say one word to me.

So I sent him an email that said:

don't know how to address the kids schedule with you evidently. In the future, if your not going to stay at the house with the kids when we have agreed to that, please notify me that you are going to leave them alone for the night. I would have come home rather than S staying in the house alone. When we spoke yesterday afternoon you could have let me know your intention was not to spend the night. It's not a big deal if you don't want to.... I just thought you wanted more time with the kids. I would prefer to know changes in the parenting schedule, as I am sure you would.

As it stands right now, you are scheduled to spend Saturday and Saturday night with them , Jan. 2...... do you still want that time? Please let me know as soon as possible so I can make appropriate changes to my plans that I have already made.


I got a phone call later and he yelled at me for my hostile
email and because I am trying to tell him what to do. and that it is no big deal for the kids to stay at home by themselves. I am at a loss here....seriously?