On Wed. nights my wife and OM had been attending a class. It was cancelled last week due to the holiday. It is scheduled for this week. Therefore, I believe it was appropriate to reassert the boundry. IC said it was a good idea also.
I called her and told her my concern. In response, I recieved anger and threats to file. If he comes to class, so be it she said. I reiterated my boundry was that I would not share her with OM, and if there was contact, I would expose the A. I added that if he was there, then I would be there as well. She said she would not be threatened.I reiterated I was not making a threat, I was asserting a boundry. Anger, anger, anger. I remained calm. I don't particularly feel good about that conversation.
