I know what you want me to do. You want me to take charge of everything in my life. Change my attitude. File for D on W and drop her like a bad habit. Move on and find someone who actually would respect me. Stand up and be someone worthy of respect. Have boundaries in place for me and be a man in every situation in life regardless of what someone else might think. Make my life a joy and success for me. Be the best dad I can to my kids and give them the best life possible.
Be charming and witty with a who cares attitude to protect myself. To grow and mature and realize I don't need anyone in my life. To live life to the fullest and take pleasure from my own choices in life. To not rely on someone else for my own happiness. To not rely on someone else to assist in problems that I can fix on my own. To be resourceful in every situation. To be a leader. To be confident in myself. To love myself and realize I am worth more than how my W treats me. To prove to myself that I can be everything I want to be regardless of what someone else says or believes.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...