Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

ok I'm reviewing my steps:
-plan A(see Cutter's posts with the description)
-GAL
-being mysterious

I think that I am doing well with the top 2, but I should work on being more mysterious. I think that is a "happy medium" between NC and total plan A. This way, I get to be more distant but also be present enough for him to see my improvements. Again, he has been complimenting me and noticing them so I think based on those results, I should continue.

The other thing about the improvements and something DBD said about her WAW friend was that I need him to see they are permanent. Her WAW friend said she was skeptical at first of the 180 changes; not convinced they would last.

BTW I have these dreams where WH is touching me. One was where we were driving in the car, and he put his arm on top of mine.But last night was hilarious! I really thought it was real..I remember in the dream asking if I was dreaming. So in the dream I was wearing my pajamas from yesterday. I am standing at the kitchen counter. He comes up, brushes past me and then takes both hands and grabs my butt, squeezing it and lifting it up and down! (He actually used to do this kind of thing a lot when we were together! )Then he just walked by like nothing happened! haha! It didn't bother me, the dream just made me laugh.


What do you think about the wii idea? I truly do like mario brothers and there are some cooking games, and others. My friend loves the wii fit plus... this could show him I also like video games (something he and OW do together I think).


Cutter, "attacking a giver" sounds pretty interesting! I can think of some ideas and then bounce them off of you if you don't mind!