So, between working on end of the year reports for my office and meeting with clients, I have continued to make plans for moving forward with splitting apart the M. I have told my W there are only two alternatives - either work on the M or we need to take it apart. She has said she doesn't want to work on the M, so, that only leaves one alternative.
I have a plan now on how to move forward. It will not be comfortable or easy, but, given my situation, it is the right thing to do. If my W comes out of the fog as a result of my actions, and I am willing to work with her to rebuild our M at that point, great. If she does not come back, then I haven't lost a thing by moving forward. In fact, I will have gained much.
I simply will not sit around waiting on my W to decide if, and when, SHE is willing to put the pieces of OUR M back together. Her decision to leave me was HER decision but one that affected ME greatly. Now, it is time for me to take back control of what happens to me and my kids.
