I think you may be right WL. I think that he is weird about the house as well. However, this morning, I had the world's worst backslide because he pressed the issue on coming back to the house. I lost it because he told me that it was over with OW and has been for weeks. I know for a fact this is not the case. He only said this to get back in the home because I was so dead set against it. I told him that he lied to me for the last time. He even called OW while he was in the house and I freaked out! I found out she is calling herself his girlfriend and we aren't even legally separated. I said there is no room in this marriage for 3 and then he called laater on in the morning and said he was done with her for good. Actions speak louder than words and he's such a good liar now that I don't believe him. We will see. He also said he's trying to work on himself so he can come back to the marriage at some undetermined date. I love my husband with all of my heart, but am I supposed to wait until he's done being a total jerk. I can't sit around for 5 years and feel like I'm always second best to his new wonderful life and his girlfriends. I have thought very seriously about confronting OW and exposing A to her family. I don't know what to do. When in the world is this going to stop being sooooo hard!
