Sure you had an option, you just chose not to take it.
Ok, I am not sure what other option I had other than to leave instead of being legally forced out and making the situation worse.
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Just so I am clear basically you will just wait until the process server shows up at your door and until then you will continue to do the same things?
I will wait until she files. As far as do the same things, no. I do occasionally try different things and sometimes they get different reactions.
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This is NOT about who files for a divorce. This is about YOU and setting boundaries for you. What does your C have to say about boundaries? Have you and her come up with a plan/goals on how to overcome your fear of setting boundaries for you? If not, why not?
We haven't approached this subject. I guess I will bring that up in our next session.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
