Sure you had an option, you just chose not to take it.
Just so I am clear basically you will just wait until the process server shows up at your door and until then you will continue to do the same things?
This is NOT about who files for a divorce. This is about YOU and setting boundaries for you. What does your C have to say about boundaries? Have you and her come up with a plan/goals on how to overcome your fear of setting boundaries for you? If not, why not?
