Have not posted much on my sitch lately, so just journaling.
Realized that bomb day from last January is approaching, and started to look back at how far we have come. I wonder if she will remember the day like I will.
I think she is becomming comfortable with the relationship and I sometimes wish that she would work half as hard as I am to continue to build our marriage past the good stage into the great stage.
Never, really have given her any thoughtful gifts for Christmas, but the least expensive gift I gave her was the one that she looked at me and said, this is great, you really put some thought in this one. It was a purse holder, she will not put her purse down on the floor when at a restaurant, so I got her these things that hook on the table and her purse can hang off of it. Pretty proud of that one.
The bedroom scene is pretty good, she still mostly calls the shots, as this was one of her complaints against me to justify the bomb that I was always the one to call them and if I did not get the right reaction I was a little S*&T about it.
All in all, pretty good, taking the kids and her to a basketball game tonight, should be pretty fun, she said she was excited about it which is not something she usually says about going to a sporting event.
I hope everyone is well and have a lovefilled 2010!
