If you love your W so much why not offer her the same thing you would offer your daughter as per your post above... "she is making the best possible decision as she sees fit for her future". Your W has done the SAME thing, you just don't like it.
It is not like I am stopping her CG. I may not like it, but there is nothing I can do to prevent it. I am just trying to be the best possible I can be for her and if it changes nothing, then it changes nothing. She will still make her own decisions regardless of how good or how bad I am. I disagree on the point that this is what is best for her and our kids for reasons I am not going to repeat. But she thinks otherwise and is entitled to her opinion and her own decisions. Just because I have not been the one to file doesn't mean I am standing in her way. She can file anytime she wants and move on all together. I am not stopping her. I am against it, but I am not stopping her.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
