Probably, but I didn't want to be a control freak. I pretty much had to because he was somewhat childish. He asked me again how to make his car payment.
I'm not really trying anything right now. Prior to a few days ago we didn't talk much. I asked him to be civilized for the kids, and he said okay.
He is acting very nice lately, which is making me suspicious. He emailed me today to tell me he ordered a new fan for my laptop.
I feel so conflicted now. Like all my progress is gone. I'm starting to think I might want him back. Ugh! My marriage counselor friend keeps telling me I need to tell H how I feel. He says H might want a D because he thinks he has no other choice. I told my friend that would be a bad idea, but didn't tell him about DB.
Do I go to family counseling to help the kids cope? Do you think it would be best if the kids didn't see us together? I'm half tempted to ask him to go to couples counseling, but that would be BAD.
I really don't know how to proceed.
I really REALLY think I need to tell him I don't have OM. I feel weird having him think I replaced him already.
