Again, you are allowing your W to control your thoughts and that is very clear seeing how you have obsessed and worried about what impact tending to your OWN finances would have on HER?
Reverse that. What impact does NOT tending to YOUR OWN finances have on you?
Bottom line.. why would you WANT to share finances with a woman that won't let you live in your own home even though she wanted out, sleeps with other men and has no respect for you? Think about that for two weeks and get back to me.
