Let's say your daughter gets a full scholarship to a college in another state. Will you cling on to her and not "set her free" all in the name of love? Or will you "set her free" in the name of love so she can have the space and opportunity to create a great life for herself?
And before you come back with a surface answer stop and think. Take a day or two if need be.
I have thought about this many times in the past and came to the conclusion a long time ago that where ever she wants to get her education is fine with me as long as it is the best possible solution for her and her future.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
