K4D It's a Wonderful Life

[K4D]

You know you would be more successful in your current situation if you applied that mindset to your wife.

It's counter-intuitive to what you think should work but then again most of this is.

I realized this after I posted it.

If you can find a better job then why don't you and why did you even consider PAYING somebody else 5700.00 to help you gain a better position?

Using similar logic - your W is not giving you what you need so why not find a better W?

Because none of this is about finding a better W for me.

Of course I could walk out on her and get on the dating sites and find someone else. That isn't what this is about. Setting effective boundaries yes. Ditching her and going off with someone else, no.

The $5,700 I thought about briefly and then decided that is not a smart move. I won't be doing that. There are plenty of other agencies that get paid by the companies that I can utilize.

Kevin