This topic is for discussion of spying on a spouse.
  • Is snooping ever good or useful? Or is it always bad, for self or for the R in the long term?
  • Are some kinds of snooping O.K., others not?
  • Is snooping justified in some cases, like to expose an affair?

Interested in hearing from both sides - being spied upon, as well as spying on S.

Let's try to keep to the topic.