Have you even read the Boundaries book? Not skim, but read and fill out the workbook that goes with it.
Quit making excuses and JUST DO IT!!!
At work do you go to managers with problems or solutions to those problems?
Haven't read the book or done the work book. I didn't know there was a work book.
At work, yes, I do go to management when things need to be done differently. Whether or not they agree and go along with it is sometimes beyond my control. But oh yes, there are times when I have to show them the lunacy of some of the things and time frames they are requesting as well as how better to not waste our time when they are pushing for shorter deadlines so we can be more effective.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
