Don't you want to be the kind of man that knows how to set boundaries that are healthy for all parts of your life? If you are unable to set boundaries why *would* a company take a gamble on YOU and pay you the big bucks? Why would anybody want to go in to business with you or hire your business if you don't know how to set boundaries? What happens when you complete a job as a self employed person and the client doesn't pay you? Will you just be "nice" and hope your kindness helps them realize they must pay you? I doubt it.
Things are different when money is involved. No, I wouldn't just let that go. If we provide a service that was agreed upon, payment is due and is non-negotiable. I also do set boundaries at work when I am given the authority to do so such as prioritizing and what is unrealistic and I make suggestions based off of that. I don't usually have the final say in that, but I do make my case when it is needed.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
