If you know it should be unacceptable to you then why isn't it?
I think I was just caught off guard like the deer in the headlights when she did that. Again, I am not as quick and witty as some of you. Definitely continued room for improvement there.
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I assume you mean condoms when you say "protective covers"? And you want to OFFER her sex? No. You tell her that is she wants to be warmed up you need get something out of it too.. then wink and walk away.
Yes, I meant condoms. I was trying to add that something needs to be in it for me to. But again, you deliver much better than I could think to do on my feet.
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Work on boundaries as a man before you work on the flirty stuff. BASICS. Setting boundaries shows her you will no longer tolerate being treated without respect. After you have established and enforced those boundaries then be flirty, fun, strong, mysterious and let her wonder what she is missing out on due to her domineering and crappy behavior. And honestly, once you do that with your W I bet your girls will stop pitching fits as they will also get the message that bad behavior will not be accepted as a means to get their way.
"The magic of making up" actually does a really good piece on how to treat bad behavior from your S. I am going to study up on that again. It uses great psychology and I see where it works and gets the results one needs to turn situations back around.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...