Haven't really thought about being a hero just the provider for the family, but I guess when you step away and look at it, that's the way it appears. Deep stuff.... have to digest that....
I currently (I change almost hour to hour sometimes - so I'm still not the rock I need to be)am thinking of staying in the house until we sell it, but at that point, if she hasn't changed her mind, the situation will be two apartments. I will know at that point if she still wants to pursue the Legal Separation because she will have her cut of the house and have the money to pursue it.
I can definitely see the limboland scenario though. Hadn't thought of that. More to think about.....
THANKS SO MUCH FOR TAKING TIME TO JUMP IN AND PROVIDING YOUR THOUGHTS!!!!! Helping think about things I hadn't thought of before.........
Me: 48 W: 47 M: 25 years T: 30 years S24, D21, D11 Bomb dropped: "Not in love with you" 10/09 Separated Feb 2010
