Lastly, why are you so wiling to take multiple gambles on your W but you refuse to take ANY for YOU? It is baffling to me as you can't control your W but you can control you therefore anything you do to set boundaries would not be a gamble for YOU as YOU can control HOW you set and enforce them.
Setting boundaries is a gamble for myself. I had a goal in mind this weekend that succeeded with W's family, but failed to move W at least from the visual point.
Isn't going after a new career and trying to launch a business a gamble for me? I know. You are referring to my boundaries or lack there of. My boudaries seem to come and go. They are inconsistant. Therefore they are not effective.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
