Well, I was reading a few threads including Mish's regarding contact and the time of the year.....
I just got off chatting with D9 (well more like talking plus webcam). There she was in my old kitchen, XW came on and chatted as well all cheery and I also noticed her boyfriend in the background. So....technology isn't all good I guess. This scene a while ago would have sent me into a rage for days but it is weird how time has a way of helping us cope.
So I may as well get off my posterior and head out into the sub zero "fresh" air.
By the way, that is the thing I resent still ... the fact that I need to be apart from D9...the rest, i am dealing with just fine. Actually i am glad i am no longer dealing with most of the other holiday stuff with XW and her disfunctional family.