Soliel--thanks for you vote of confidence.

Doc--I read the story of Kaoru.(I keep my copy locked in my office drawer.) YIKES! Unfortunately, that text offers nothing in advise other than, 'run like hell'. I am certain she is trying to manipulate me. There was despiration in her voice after I called her bluff on the D. She needs to have control over the situation because she has no control over herself. She also wants me to still be there to kick around, doesn't she? She is soo mixed up. It is so hard for me to accept that I can do nothing to help her now. (You probobly have told patients that they need to stop smoking, havent you? You can't quit for them though.)