On Christmas Eve when she came to your apartment to prepare the gifts for the children you described to us in great detail how she was shivering and asked you to warm her up. IMO you holding her did nothing but prove to her that you would still offer affection while she was sleeping with other men. I would have looked at her like she was from Mars, winked at her and said in a flirty and sexy way "sorry babe, wouldn't want to confuse you with affection, the blankets are in the linen closet". So what if she stomped her feet and pouted? In fact, her stomping her feet and pouting would have given you the perfect opportunity to use on of RobX's lines about not tolerating her crappy behavior.
Honestly CG, I am just not quick with comeback flirty lines. I end up being like a deer caught in the headlights more often than not.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...