I've made progress, though. Listening to him talk about divorcing me didn't hurt my feelings. lol
That is good. That shows you are getting stronger. I can't for the life of me figure out why he wants a D if he doesn't have another woman. You did say you are a control freak. Did that play any part in his wanting out by chance? Have you tried to work on not being so controlling in situations?
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...