Why am I the one considering moving out? Well I guess I feel I am the breadwinner, and I feel like I need to continue to provide for the family, no matter what the circumstances. If my wife left the house, she will take my younger daughter with her, and I dont know where she'd go. I am thinking its best for the time being to keep things stable for my daughter - to keep her in her own home, in own bed, she will be devastated in my opinion once house is sold and we get two apartments....
I am going on gut instinct as I go along the path here - what I do know is that I was doing more then half of the "dont's" in the list above from Sandi, and I realized a week or so ago that I needed to start my 180........
Me: 48 W: 47 M: 25 years T: 30 years S24, D21, D11 Bomb dropped: "Not in love with you" 10/09 Separated Feb 2010
