As you know my H did a lot of cycling towards home just before Christmas and continues to do so. This morning he was on the drive when we got up at 9.30am so he must of left his flat really early as it takes 1 hour and 20 minutes to get here. He is coming tomorrow and Thursday to take the kids out as well. This is much more than usual when he would normally go dim and not come to see the children over a holiday period.
He has an OW but they don’t live together, in fact she remains in the house with her H even though they are separated!
Prior to him moving out he wrestled with the decision to go and at one point told S16 that he wanted to work it out with me and make a go of it. OW was in the background at this stage. But then the fog came down and he left.
In the weeks leading up to his departure we also talked about his childhood and how he hadn’t grieved when his mother died. He seemed to be getting an idea about how this was impacting on his life currently. He even agreed to go to the doctor because I felt he was depressed. That didn’t get us anywhere as he wasn’t truthful with the doctor who said he was ok.
He has just bought another engine for my car as the current engine is starting to get old. He has offered me his car whilst my car will be in the garage being sorted. I have declined this request as I can’t have OW sitting in my car!
Is my H fence sitting or making genuine baby steps towards home. I have no expectations at this point and continue to treat him as previously i.e DBing and GALing
His behaviour is now out of MLC character and confusing......
