OH,and by the way, she called earlier and said that she was taking my daughter and going to another guys house to watch a movie? WTF????
Yeah, WTF!!!
Originally Posted By: AFWAW
So, I'm not allowed to have a woman friend on FB but she is going over to other guys houses?
That's correct. It's called WAW entitlement.
Originally Posted By: AFWAW
She hasn't signed up for couseling
To be honest, I didn't think she would.
I'm sorry AFWAW. Now, I've got to ask you this question...
How much longer do you see yourself putting up with this crap?
1. Go and re-friend this girl on FB. 2. DO NOT allow her to take your daughter to ANY other man's house. 3. Don't drop the rope, shred it into a million pieces. 4. Stop caving in to her demands for crying out load. 5. Start dating for REAL
Here are some choice phrases you could look at and see if you can use:
"I've come to the conclusion that you're sick. Please don't go to counseling because they will lock you up and you'll never be a part of D13's life thereafter. I've decided I will not be dictated to by a selfish, self-centered, egotistical, spoiled brat any longer. I wish you all the best on this path you've chosen. I have nothing further to say to you. From now on get your L to talk to my L. Have a nice life. Bye."
Just my opinion... and I think PDT, Steve and Rob would agree with me on this.
EDIT: And when she comes back sniffing around after that little declaration... ignore her. Do not fold. You keep your barriers up. You ensure that word gets around that you are dating. You let her come back crawling... which I doubt she will... She just wants a puppet to play her little control games with and unfortunately you're it. Later on this will extend to D13 so she can push your buttons further.
Give this little girl the spanking she's crying to receive.