Chin up hun, just a quick question where you to quite young when you got together? We were and a lot of my H's stuff was had he missed out on a life getting together with me.. ok I know thats painful to hear but can you honestly say you have never wondered what else you would have done if H hadnt come along? Well if you didnt get thinking about it now, you C is right neither or you should sacrifice things but compromise so you both get as near as possible to what you want..
You asked how I got Mr Rabbit home, well I just made it far nicer than living in "grass isnt really that green after all land" I was like you I panicked, my 180 was not too, my new motto is "would I have to do it if I was on my own" so if I wibble about something I'd rather let H do I ask myself my question and invariably go do it lol!
Your H still sounds a little foggy to me and accepting some days he is in fogland and you just have to get on with it helps, on those days GAL with a vengence and be seen to be bright, happy, wonderful, beautiful and sexy, everything he wants but right now cant really commit too cos hes foggy!
My H also has depression so I make a little allowance for that but not a lot.. Yep when they said piecing was hard boy they meant it.. I use all my DB tools as best I can.. they do work but you do have to accept they are probably going to get used for life, but then maybe they should be anyway which is why they work..
So today isnt a good day or as your in the states its the evening now, plan tomorrow get up and enjoy it fully and if H is there its a bonus not a loss!
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
