Originally Posted By: newmama
about the facebook account...I interpreted that to mean she didn't want you to know about her..unless you request to be her friend!


I don 't think she'd add me as a friend, if that is what you are meaning. I haven't seen her since 23 November and she has erased me and D from her life ...

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I don't get how you jumped to the idea she won't contact you again.


The only way I could think that she 'suddenly' changed her FB account to private is because she spoke to her friend who I spoke to on Xmas Eve (who I told it was public). If that is the case then that friend will also have told her that I said 'if W doesn't want to be D's step-mum anymore then she needs to leave us alone'. I just assume if the FB thing filters down so will the comment about being left alone. That's the only reason I think it.

D's birthday is in just over 3 weeks to we'll see what happens with that.

D's mum and I spoke to her on Xmas Eve about what W had said to her about Daddy and Mummy stopping W seeing her and stopping her getting W's Xmas present. We explained we didn't stop W doing anything and that if D still wanted to speak to W she could, that was up to her.

D spoke to me yesterday and told me that she had thought about what I had said and said she didn't want to speak to W anymore because she didn't want her telling her anymore lies.

We're all getting further and further apart instead of closer.

Last edited by P17; 12/29/09 09:21 AM.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

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