Yep WAS/MLC's its all a bit wrapped up together at our age, but I started referring to H as ET or Teddy Boy to my DB friends, he either sounded like an alien or threw his toys outta the pram!
Honestly when you first start DB'ing it sounds mental, but it does work, my H is home and several other H/W's are back despite affairs, mine didnt have one but he is having a very dubious friendship with someone.
Its hard to accept that anything that comes outta your spouses mouth is no longer loving kind and generous, but once you can get to grips with the fact you have NO CONTROL over her what so ever the better it is for you.. Whilst your waiting for your book to arrive go read lots of posts, Rocked Worlds is a good one and look for DIA's thread too, your also welcome to read mine if you fancy a giggle, because believe me along the way you will find some things to laugh at.. Stick at it kid you will be fine, you seem to have the right attitude! (())
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
