Maybe I will go ahead and make sure all of the family knows the real story. I am not afraid of X spewing...I think he is just spinning a happy fairly tale about how we equitably and peacefully worked it out...just in time for OW to appear. And yes, it does hurt to thingk that people I have known, gone to weddings, funerals, new babies, etc, for 23 years, would be sold a line of BS and say...oh, well, as long as everyone is happy...

It won't do a thing to get him back, but I working on not being invested in that anymore.


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process