how to 180 when you've been too independent?

[avermont]

I haven't heard of those books. I can add them to my library.

What am I doing for GAL? It's been nothing but GAL from day one--connecting with friends; trying to learn to ski; volunteering with local theatre, migrant workers, and adaptive snowboarding...went on a couple of dates. My 180's are all about intimacy and commitment, so as you have heard me say, those are not the easiest to work in just ordinary life. My friends are certainly learning a lot more about me as I learn to open up and share the pain. So that is a change. Working on my anxiety issues. Those are the only 180's I have been able to see so far. Suggestions welcome!