Mixed Signals or is this Limbo Land

[MHL]

More positives tonight as my W came over after taking our S9 out to eat. I suggested that she come over to break the ice with our best friends who are next door neighbors. My W had not spoken to them in 3 months and that was just once, prior to that she had not spoken to them since July 5th. I said we could all watch Monday night football, we all just stood in the kitchen and talked for 2 hours just like old times. My W was at the house for almost an hour before our friends came over which gave us some time together, no R talk. I just tried to keep the conversation focused on her as much as I could. Did not do any compliments on her looks though, missed opportunity. I think the main thing was that she felt comfortable being around me in our house.

My W decided to make her exit a little early, she has to work tomorrow but hugged best friends goodbye and came to me and I got another unsolicited hug from her. I am not sure if it was done b/c it was in front of our friends or b/c she felt like it but either way it is good. Tomorrow is another day and I am just going to continue to act consistently and GAL.

I hope my thread turns into a success story. I sure everyone here hopes that happens. I also hope that posting the positive things going on instead of the negative will not only help me recognize more positive things but will help others that are reading, recognize the positives going on in their own sitch's.