New to this Community seeking advice

[JR09]

Thanks R2C.

Glad to have your input. The boys tell me how much I changed, and how nuch nicer I have become. Coming from them, it has to be true somehow. We continue to have a great time together. Listening to their stories, being with them, there is just nothing like it.

Today, I did call my W and invited her to come have lunch with us (I drove up all the way to be about 30 miles where my W stays w/ her parents. She declined. I just said she can always call me again if she changes her mind. Her "no" was not the "No, Hell No, I don't want to do that!" It was a half-hearted No. I think she wanted to come along, but her pride/fear/insecurity got in the way.

Anyway, I am as nice and composed as I can be. Displaying my best self at all times. DBing even when the chips are down.

JR09