I'm sorry your H crossed your boundary about living with ow. Even when you already 'know' it's still a kick in the gut to find out.
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my goal in texting him daily is to remind him that I'm still here.
amd, are you still talking to Chuck or getting other help? are they supporting and agreeing with you? IMO your H has never NOT known you are there. You are his rock. Your H needs an earthquake to shake the crapola out of him.
I hope you have a really great break! soak up plenty of that sunshine while you can!
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.