I believe you should follow you gut. Have you read "the four agreements" and the other two books in the set? They got my head on straight. I have read those three books so many times, and each time, I come away clearer.
How about we change the subject? What GAL and 180's are you doing FOR YOU!
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712