how to 180 when you've been too independent?

[avermont]

Thanks for your support. My X left for an OW, so as much as that s@&ks, there was a reason.

I keep contacting xMIL, so keep losing ground on detaching.

How are you doing with that? Have you talked D, or are you still in limbo land?
The complete lack of comm, while helpful for detaching, is just insane.

How can they just say...nothing?

I will look for your threads. I'm in a real down time right now and I really do appreciate the support.