Well,Alex, what's my consolation prize??? I was right. He asked me this evening after calling 10 times in 3 hours because I did not answer, if he could stay here for a few weeks until he found another place to go. I sternly said "no" and of course he was infuriated. He also tried to engage me in a little sympathy for his situation and I replied "I understand this is a very difficult time for you and for that I am so sorry". What I really wanted to say was "why don't you go stay with the skank?", but I resigned myself.

I hope I didn't just make a huge mistake because he is really angry right now with me and says this is his house too so he should have rights as well. Sure, you can have rights to the house once you stop seeing OW..... grrrrr.......