He was here about 3.5 hours. I made sure I looked fantastic, and went out for a bit. He noticed I made sure to look into his eyes when I opened the door.
When I returned, he was talkative and friendly, said it was best for the kids. He looked at my laptop, and told me the fan was dead. He said he would order a new one. He cooked, we all ate. He told me details of his life that I didn't need to know.
However...
He brought up the D. He also brought up OM, and commented on my constant texting. He told me again he didn't approve of me taking the kids to OM's house. I didn't respond.
As he was leaving, he said we needed to go to family counseling for the kids. Two months ago, he wanted nothing to do with counseling.
I've made progress, though. Listening to him talk about divorcing me didn't hurt my feelings. lol