I have been reading the Art of Seduction. I think there are some things that we can take from it but, it seems to be aimed at those women who don't know who we are before they are seduced. It is tough to do that in our shoes, however, like I said we can still takes away some tips from the book and use them in our favor.
My W seems to have gotten over her anger. I think that has occurred because I am not pursuing her anymore and her A is over. Now all she is dealing with is the resentment of how I have treated her in the past.
I would tell her not to speak to you in a disrespectful manner in front of the kids or anyone for that matter. You can't tolerate that.... to be treated like a doormat. This behavior needs to stop. Don't be afraid of her, be a man and tell her that you won't tolerate that.
Keep up the good work. We can do this. My therapist said that 70% of people in our shoes walk.... We are taking the high road and the most difficult path.
Me:49 W: 41 Kids=D14/D14/S10 Married: 15 Together: 16 Bomb: 08/26/09 Currently: separated but in the different houses.
