Kevin,
I hear you man. Stick with your beliefs, your W needs to see that. But there's a way to do that and still shake things up and become more attractive.

Thinking back on the last two years of my sitch, the advice you're getting works. I didn't lie or try to drop hints, I was just out having fun. She got curious. I need to do that more.


Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
Responded, now dark
"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK