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#1896121 12/17/09 12:22 AM
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Nothing new to report. X seems to be perfectly fine with his new life and OG.

But I had this odd strange feeling that something is, well, afloat. I have no reason to feel this way but I do.

I am having lunch with Crushee this week. Haven't seen him in about a month and only chatted with him once in that time.


M: 16 years
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Divorced 11/09
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I am expecting things to be quiet and to not have much to say here.

X called to clarify some things yesterday. I was to the point and that was it.


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Continuing minimal contact. Tomorrow I will let him know some things that are up w/D, but that is enough.


M: 16 years
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Also, next week will be the last I see of him for over a week, which is, at this time, fine by me.


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I knew I would be sad tonight and I am. I do not have my D for Xmas and I am thinking of OW with my D and missing her.

I have made plans to do some other things but I will still miss D.

Will make a point of continuing to be as scarce as possible w/X.


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hopefully as you maintain your distance from your Xh, you will heal more and move forward with your life
you have done a good job at creating a peaceful environment considering the situation
I would feel the same about the OG
but you have done well
wishing you a peaceful holiday
peace


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Thanks Peace.

With D gone, I miss her, but I also have the chance to do some adult things. I am looking forward to that.


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Forward, its tough to get new things going. My advice to you is to be willing to try new things and keep yourself open to having fun. It doesn't mean you have to run out and start dating, just hook up with people and have some fun!

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Hey F! I have to say that although I really miss my kids when they're gone, it is a little break. I can do some adult things, shopping, movies, whatever. Try to look at it that way and find something fun to do.


"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out."
Robert Collier

"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments."
Henry Ward Beecher

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I am exercising every day this week while she is gone!

I have politely called X a few times to talk to D, but otherwise I am silent and will continue to be still.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
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