ML,
I do feel for your X's aunt but perhaps he will turn a corner at some point.

Wifey or not, it is good that your S is re-forming a relationship w/X. I believe abandonment issues are difficult enough but your S was at a particularly impressionable age, it seemed.

I can say that it is difficult to see children form R with OP, but it is better that they have relationship w/X.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D