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You don't know what your kids think. You're projecting your feelings onto them.

Kevin, as counterintuitive to you as it may seem, your wife will not care until you don't care. Until you realize that, and people here have been pretty much telling you that for a long time, you'll be stuck.


I get this. But I also know my W is not quite like other W's. I think even if I choose not to care, she still won't care. I don't think she will care either way.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...