I wish I could press a button and help you get to the point where you just don't care.
Love it! CG, I may not agree with you all the time, but your advice is so good.
For me, this moment was when my W came to tell me she was filing again. She let it expire the first time, and like Kevin I was holding onto threads of hope. Fear and pain are so paralyzing in our sitches. I've gone into "what the hell" mode and it's shaken things up a bit. I need to keep it up.
What would it take for you Kevin, and how would you act? I know your personal beliefs keep you from filing or dating, you're standing and I'm there with you and admire that. But that doesn't mean you can't adopt a more badass attitude, which is what everyone is trying to get at.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
