Again, I know what you are saying but it is hard to be sweet or attentive when I never see her. I am not going to let her have the best of both worlds for my own well being. For a while I was very positve and care-free when I was around her. I guess I need to decide if I want to continue the battle. At some point time you have to draw the line and say "do I really want to be married to someone like this".
I am guessing right now she does not want my attention anyway; plus I am afraid I will come across as a floor mat.
