What can I do to save my marriage? Help

[Sleepy]

Got it!!

Like Wonderful said, now that I am in the MB, things have changed. I feel I have more power. I am no longer the outsider (The extra bedroom is detached from the rest of the house). Excellent move and it wouldn't have happened if I hadn't come here.

I am going to detach and continue to, as my W says, "send out feelers to other women". I have caught glipses of how this works and it is very effective. She is disturbed by it.

I cleared out the bookcase in her room and then she said "should we keep it?" I said " yeah, I want it for my place." She didn't respond to that. She just asked if we could get more furniture.

Thanks for all the help guys.