old aunt has phoned me today to say that she knew son had been for tea with dad and that she found out by accident, asked how come, she has these funny little turns that send her crashing to the floor for no apparent reason, on her emergency contact number it is ex, few weeks ago she was saying she was going to change it, I told her not to as I fully thought that in an emergency he would be there for her, anyhooow she had a funny turn and ended up on the floor, contacted the people she has to contact in this situation and they contacted ex who in ten minutes was up there getting her off the floor, she is fine once she is off the floor so he didnt stay and she thanked him, i told her at least she knew he would be there in a real emergency and it is only a big bravado act that he is acting out, at least he helped his old aunt, x