I know everyone goes round and round with you on what works and what doesn't, but you won't take the advice on what actually works, and live it. Read up on people that have made it back, and why and how, then live it for yourself, not for your W.
When I said I wanted to see you succeed, that is exactly what I meant. I did not say I want to see you succeed with your W.
However, you say your W is currently all about the money, so what is going to make her more interested in you, if that is what you want, and she truly is into only the money.
Current Kev Version: No job, can't let go, can't stop contacting me for mundane stuff, can't keep track of car insurance, or what the kids are doing in school, constantly temperature checking to see if I am interested at all.
New Improved Kev version: Hmm, I wonder why Kev has not contacted me in a few months? Kev stopped by to pick up the kids in a new car the other day, and was laughing with them on the way back to the car, looks fit, and is that a new hairstyle and outfit? Hey, I heard from someone that Kev is working in his own business now? Who's that hot blond receptionist that is hanging out with Kev now in the new car that someone keeps mentioning to me?
I am no female, but I am going to guess she would go for Kev Version 2.0 over V1.0, if at all, and at least be wondering what she is missing after.
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
